Remind yourself that you are other things besides in love and hopeless and sort of sad in the saddest way possible like, you are also a friend or a son, daughter or an employee, student and also a thinker, a doer, a person who lives and has lived before this sad, sad mess came to pass.
That’s when you know you’ve found somebody really special. When you can just shut the fuck up for a minute and comfortably share silence.